Grandma and all her grandchildren at the time.
I started when I was young just like everyone else loving my creations. I remember my first self doubt when I was young sitting at the ranch in my grandmothers office and she sat me down with an orange and some cloves. She instructed me to make an ornament by taking the cloves and pressing them through the flesh of the orange. I could choose to make a pattern or I could just cover the orange. It was my choice. Oh the pressure of this was more than I could bear. It lasted about a minute and then my grandma said to me, “no pressure, just have fun.” She explained the orange was going to be beautiful and smell wonderful no matter what I created. She took away the pressure I was feeling and replaced it with freedom.
We all feel this pressure when we create sometimes. Some of us more than others. Some of us do it by putting pressure for money, deadlines, and others self made pressure. This pressure can suck the joy out of creating. For me I decided long ago not to play along. I never place a dollar amount on what I create. However, I do fall into the deadline category sometimes. It is a painful feeling to place pressure into my creativity. Creativity is a natural thing for everyone. It is a practice we should all partake of. When we place pressure on our creativity we lose our creative freedom and therefore do not see being creative as a fun, freeing experience.
How can we be free creatively?
1. By being kind to ourselves. NO harsh self talk. When these voices come into your head just ask them politely to go away and then see some good in what you have created or the creative thought you are nurturing.
2. Don’t box yourself in. If you are photographer and you want to paint. Go paint. I say this because I did this. For a lot of years I stopped playing in paint and just played with my camera. One day I decided to play in paint again and it is what I do most of the time. I still take pictures and I adore photography but it is not my path right now. Right now it is painting. So I am following it.
3. Start your creative process with the bold NO PRESSURE attitude. Just have fun and enjoy it.
4. Remember creativity is your God given right. You were born a creative, we all were. Do not put a place marker in your creativity. Don’t compare yourself to others or let them compare themselves to you. You do not have to be the best or even place yourself in some rank. “You are you. That is truer than true. No one can be you better than you.” Dr. Seuss
5. As far as deadlines are concerned, start early and give yourself time and space to finish things.
So, I am a little behind so I improvised. I love shopping for cards and so I bought some, made some, modified some. It was fun and it feels so good to have a card file full of cards ready to go.
April was baby, Mother’s Day, and female themed. I ordered a set off of Etsy and bought the other two sets in the dollar bin and Michaels.
Michaels also had these pre-made card bases that you just embellish how ever you want so I grabbed these and they really made the process simple and quick.
I printed off some word strips that went with May’s theme and attached them to the cards.
I also added some washi tape and stickers to complete the look.
July’s theme was kid themed, thinking of you, or blank. I purchased these in the dollar bin at Michaels. It was big score for me. I also grabbed extra cards for gift giving. I love receiving stationary and office supplies.
I did skip June because I already had so many male themed cards. I will do better next month…..oops I am vacationing next month so I will do better in September.
March’s card club